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A Challenge to Walk in Humility
As my wife and I have talked to couples over the years, we are continually reminded that we live in a broken world. Life’s challenges...
Guest Post
Mar 5, 20244 min read


Question: Why Do You Love Your Spouse?
“Such love has no fear, because perfect love expels all fear. If we are afraid, it is for fear of punishment, and this shows that we have...
Glen Solberg
Feb 5, 20244 min read


No Other Place to Stand
“I the Lord do not change. So you, the descendants of Jacob, are not destroyed.” Malachi 3:6 Do you ever find yourself deeply moved by...
Glen Solberg
Jan 4, 20245 min read


Help for Communicating: Green Light, Yellow Light, Red Light
It's a familiar verse to most Christ-followers: For the Word of God is alive and powerful. It is sharper than the sharpest two-edged...
Glen Solberg
Nov 8, 20235 min read


Conflict: You May Need a Change of Perspective
If you are married and reading this, my next statement will not be a new insight for you: In every marriage, you will have conflict. You...
Glen Solberg
Oct 22, 20236 min read


Are You Truly Loving Your Closest Neighbor?
The men's group I attend has been studying the Parable of the Good Samaritan in Luke 10. It has been helpful to take this very familiar...
Glen Solberg
Oct 6, 20233 min read


It's the "Little Things"!!
“Good morning, Sweetie! Sorry I missed you this morning. I missed seeing your sweet face. I hope you have a great day. I'm praying for...
David Stephens
Sep 20, 20233 min read


God's Help for Us in Our Fear and Doubt
Forever, O Lord, Your Word is firmly fixed in the heavens. Your faithfulness endures to all generations; You have established the earth,...
Glen Solberg
Sep 4, 20236 min read


Snippets: Making Time for Connection
Snippet noun : a small piece snipped off; a small bit, scrap, or fragment: brief extract Synonyms: piece, scrap, fragment, part One of...
Glen Solberg
Aug 22, 20234 min read


Are You Thinking of Your Valentine Today?
Yes, I know! Valentine’s Day was back in February - 6 months ago. But once we get past February 14th, does that mean we have “done our...
Glen Solberg
Aug 5, 20233 min read


Five Elements of Effective Apologies
Even in the best of marriages, inevitably one spouse will do (or fail to do) something that hurts or disappoints the other. To be sure,...
Barry Williams
Jul 20, 20233 min read


Wisdom We All Need to Practice in Marriage
It is such a simple verse from the wisdom of Solomon. Just 13 words - not hard to understand necessarily - but certainly challenging to...
Glen Solberg
Jul 7, 20235 min read


The God of Breakthroughs
Every marriage has “crisis moments” - moments or seasons when marriage is hard, when the connection just isn’t there. In these moments a...
David Stephens
Jun 19, 20233 min read


A Word of Encouragement for You from Acts 18
And the Lord said to Paul one night in a vision, "Do not be afraid, but go on speaking and do not be silent, for I am with you, and no...
Glen Solberg
Jun 7, 20234 min read


Has This Happened to You, Gentlemen?
It's a Sunday afternoon. I was just sitting at my kitchen table enjoying a book. Then I look down at my phone and I see I have a text...
Glen Solberg
May 25, 20237 min read


Where Do I Turn when Things Get Hard in My Marriage?
Note: If you are reading this title and are single, divorced, or widowed, please keep reading. There are great applications shared that...
Glen Solberg
May 11, 20234 min read


Are You Living in the "Married Roommate Zone"?
We see this happening more and more - a husband and wife living at the same address but very disconnected from one another. They are...
Glen Solberg
Apr 23, 20232 min read


How Can the Words of a Pastor’s Wife Help Your Marriage?
This past October had my mind and heart extra-focused on my husband and the weight of his job. My husband is a pastor, and October is...
Johanna Zipp
Apr 8, 20234 min read


An Important Question on Gratitude
Take a moment to answer this question honestly: “Is your gratitude evident to others as you follow Christ?” We may feel like we are...
Glen Solberg
Mar 21, 20236 min read


The Gift that Keeps on Giving
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing...
David Stephens
Feb 16, 20233 min read
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