The Abiding Marriage Blog

Depending on where you live, there are certain things you expect to find  on the table at your favorite eating place. At a local BBQ...

INTRODUCTION : There have been a few days recently where I have felt anxious - even overwhelmed - in a particular area of my life. In the...

A few years back, my wife, Shawn, and I were with some other couples watching Paul David Tripp teach on marriage. He said something that...

Let's be honest. Every husband and wife will experience times of conflict in their marriage. It’s a byproduct of the world we live in,...

For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their...

The man gave names to all livestock and to the birds of the heavens and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a...

What do you do when … The world is going crazy? The culture has lost its mind? There seems to be chaos and anarchy all around us? Evil...

I grew up in a family where I learned what it took to grow things. We had a large vegetable garden each year that my Dad and my siblings...

As a marriage counselor, I often hear a man or woman share something they believe about God’s plan for marriage that is just not true ....

For the despondent, every day brings trouble; for the happy heart, life is a continual feast.  Proverbs 15:15 NLT   Proverbs is a book...

When people discuss things that can seriously jeopardize any marriage relationship, you usually hear things like adultery, finances, and...

The Bible has been described in many ways. Some have called it God’s Rulebook for Life. Many would think of it as a Holy book. Christians...

Joe is your average married guy in his forties with three wonderful kids. My friend, Rob, talks about Joe in his book, Choices: The...

There are seasons in every marriage that are difficult. No husband or wife is immune from these seasons. For you it might be parenting,...

A prudent person foresees danger and takes precautions. The simpleton goes blindly on and suffers the consequences.   Proverbs 22:3 NLT...

As my wife and I have talked to couples over the years, we are continually reminded that we live in a broken world. Life’s challenges...

“Such love has no fear, because perfect love expels all fear. If we are afraid, it is for fear of punishment, and this shows that we have...

“I the Lord do not change. So you, the descendants of Jacob, are not destroyed.” Malachi 3:6 Do you ever find yourself deeply moved by...

It's a familiar verse to most Christ-followers: For the Word of God is alive and powerful. It is sharper than the sharpest two-edged...

If you are married and reading this, my next statement will not be a new insight for you: In every marriage, you will have conflict. You...